Is Christmas sexy now?

Is Christmas sexy now?

Christmas is supposed to be comforting and nostalgic. And yet, somewhere along the way, Santa got hot. “Sexy Santa” costumes are now a seasonal staple, and there is, quite literally, a Santa fetish. This is not...
Locktober: The longer you wait, the hotter it gets

Locktober: The longer you wait, the hotter it gets

It’s the kinkiest month of the year. From teasing text exchanges to full-on chastity gear, couples everywhere are discovering that the longer you wait, the hotter it gets. Curious? This beginner-friendly guide breaks it all...
Let’s bust some kink myths

Let’s bust some kink myths

Kink has long been wrapped in leather and mystery. And though we are as a culture making some headway into portraying kink somewhat more accurately than it might have been in the past (we're looking...
5 surprising things we learned from our kink quiz

5 surprising things we learned from our kink quiz

Discover 5 surprising insights from our kink quiz — from power play to foreplay, here’s what people really want in the bedroom.  
Kink gear MVPs your collection needs (video)

Kink gear MVPs your collection needs (video)

Navigating the world of kink gear can feel overwhelming. As the founder of Good Ember, I've curated thousands of boxes for our subscribers and learned that understanding the fundamentals makes all the difference in your...
Kink is grown-up play with better prizes

Kink is grown-up play with better prizes

What happens when you treat sex like play? (Spoiler: Everything gets better). As children, play was how we explored the world. It helped us grow, adapt, take risks, and discover what it meant to collaborate...
Why women need variety (and how kink can deliver)

Why women need variety (and how kink can deliver)

Women's desire thrives on psychological stimulation, novelty and surprise, which is exactly what introducing a little kinky play brings to relationships seeking deeper connection beyond the routine.
What's the difference between a kink and a fetish?

What's the difference between a kink and a fetish?

Most of us have a pretty narrow idea of what kink looks like, and that’s exactly why so many people think it’s not for them. But once you understand what kink really is, you might be surprised to find...
The unexpected benefits of kink

The unexpected benefits of kink

Beyond pleasure, kink is a relationship superpower that transforms communication, builds unshakable trust, and creates moments of profound connection. The surprising truth? Many couples find their emotional bonds strengthened in ways they never imagined.